As a good conservative kid, I grew up knowing that the best prayers are original, spontaneous, lofty, and long. Using prayers someone else wrote a long time ago - even good ones - was not acceptable; prayers needed to be generated on-the-fly, or God wouldn’t listen.
George Hunter’s description of the prayers written (or rather, spoken and memorized) by Celtic Christians struck me powerfully:
…contemplative prayer contrasts with the more usual approach of praying at a specific time or meeting, and it contrasts with the mroe usualy petitionary approach that “requests God to do specific things.” Indeed, it is “the opposite of controlling prayer.” Contemplative prayer is the way we fulfill St. Paul’s counsel to “pray without ceasing.” It is an ongoing, or very frequent, opening of the heart to the Triune God, often while engaging in each of the many experiences that fill a day. The Celtic Way of Evangelism, p32-33
Growing up in church, I can say honestly that I was never taught how to pray. Jesus’ disciples asked him to teach them, and I can now see why. It’s not hard to pray, but it is hard to pray often and pray consistently. Bedtime prayers are a great starting place, but not if you’re dead tired and fall asleep instantly when you hit the sheets.
Hunter explains how the Celtic Christians pursued such contemplative prayer:
The Carmina Gadelica tradition gave people brief daily rituals, which they learned by heart, with suggested affirmations or prayers for directing their hearts, moment by moment, setting by setting. The Celtic Christians learned prayers to accompany getting up in the morning, for dressing, for starting the morning fire, for bathing or washing clothes or dishes, for “smooring” the fire at days end, and for going to bed at night. p33
I need prayers like this.
Prayers for making coffee
Prayers for washing my hands
Prayers for shampooing my hair (good wasted prayer time!)
Prayers for making ice and filling the water pitcher that goes in the fridge
Prayers for starting the car (which will eventually depend more and more on such prayers!)
Prayers for driving to work
Prayers for watching kids pass in the halls
Prayers for waiting for my email to download
Prayers for waiting for WinXP to kill Outlook, which has frozen for the third time that day
Prayers for doing dishes
Prayers for grading papers that all say basically the same thing
Prayers for swallowing proud words that would hurt others
Prayers for meeting God in the ordinary, and becoming a person who is prepared to meet God in the mountaintop times.
Edit:
Prayers for planning lessons
Prayers for doing things I don’t want to do
Prayers for paying bills
Prayers for that flash of anger that I feel sometimes
Prayers for locking the door
Prayers for leaving on a trip
Prayers for putting on a sweater
Prayers for feeling the warmth of sunlight
I looked up the Ray Simpson book below and noticed that he refers to them as “blessings.” I think of “May the road rise to meet you…” when I hear that word. I don’t want to pray things like that; I want prayers that will focus my mind on God amid the ordinary and mundane.
Links and suggested prayers are welcome in the comments. See also Ray Simpson, Celtic Blessings: Prayers for Everyday Life.


Prayers for riding on the bus
Prayers for waiting for the elevator
Prayers for sitting through unbearably boring meetings when you know very well that you contribute nothing by being there
Prayers for sorting through junk mail
Prayers for waiting in line at the store
Prayers for booting up the computer
Prayers for preparing breakfast
Prayer is our communication with God, the embodiment of perfection (Can you use the word ‘embodiment’ in reference to God? Would enspiritment or enpersonment be more accurate?) and should constitute most of our waking hours. I can point to innumerable times in my daily routine when I dwell on inconsequential matters instead of focusing on Him. Thanks for the reminder that He should continually be the vision before me. And, Justin, if you write that prayer for swallowing proud words, could you please send me a copy?
Great thoughts! I really need this in my life as well. One of my favorite contemplative prayers is the simple “Jesus prayer”: Jesus Christ son of God have mercy on me.
Enjoyed the post, Justin. Here are three Celtic prayer books that I’ve personally found indespensible:
The Rhythm of Life: Celtic Daily Prayer
Celtic Daily Prayer: Prayers and Readings from the Northumbria Community
The Celtic Way of Prayer: The Recovery of Religious Imagination
It’s interesting how the Celtic philosophy concerning prayer has led me to reconsider the legitimacy and even desirability of using short memorized prayers (e.g. prayers for saying grace, before bed, etc.). Maybe “Now I lay me down to sleep…” wasn’t so bad afterall!
Indeed. Thanks for contributing, everyone.
John-
I think I was in that “I contribute nothing” meeting with you…except it was a parent conference.
I’ve heard the “Jesus Prayer” before, and Karl (who I’m certain will post below, so I need not link to him =) has even called it the cornerstone of Orthodox spirituality. It seems to be as valuable to adults as “Now I lay me…” has been to kids.
What appeals to me about Celtic prayer, though, is that there are prayers for a variety of situations. For example, filling my water bottle and making coffee can have powerful symbolism of concepts other than mercy that I need to be reminded of.
Hehe. John’s link is to the archives of this site, which have no index page. Want a page, John?
Page?
Justin,
As your father, I must say that your memories of childhood are not as acuate as you think they may be. Your mother spent countless hours in prayer with you and many more for you. And as for only spontaneous prayers being acceptable, you didn’t learn that from me or your mother.
Jesus warned about vain repetition in prayer, but such warnings should not be equated with planned, organized and pre-written prayers.
Love you always, son.
Dad
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